Parent guidelines for dating
Once your child starts dating, don’t stop talking to them about relationships.
Dating doesn’t always go as you expect; your child may need someone to come to if they have a problem.
While you may think your teen already knows how to date, they probably don’t.
Most of their information comes from media that’s meant to be entertaining, not realistic.
Thankfully, God is still stronger than the world, and He wants to protect your teen in the midst of temptation.
Good news: Your teenager can maintain healthy, God-honoring relationships. You have the power to redefine dating for your teenager, using strategies that can help you and your teen to navigate relational waters.
Don't: Ask your teen's date to lead a one-hour devotion. Don't: Expect your teen to tell you every detail of the relationship. Because of your investment, you get to redefine dating and help your teen replace unsatisfying, casual relationships with godly dating.
You can't totally shield her from destructive dating images. After you've created a dating foundation, proceed to discussions about relationships. Sometimes it's hard for parents to know when to hold fast and when to relax the rules.
You have to give her a Christ-focused lens through which to view the world. To keep your conversations on track: When you determine your teen is mature enough to date, celebrate! Here are some suggestions: Do: Meet all your teen's dates before they go out. (Watching movies alone in the dark is always a bad idea.)Do: Be available throughout a date in case your teen needs to be "rescued." Let your teen know that you can be reached at any time. It's always bad when a relationship ends and the parents can't let go.
It may be hard to see your child growing up and finding new people to get close to, but if you take the right steps and teach them how relationships are supposed to be, they’re much more likely to make the right choices.
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